A night of freedom in Berlin: experiences from Kit Kat and Berghain
In the lively streets of Berlin, where history meets modern creativity, the nightlife pulsates in a unique variety. For 28-year-old bisexual Chris, a special night at Kit Kat and Berghain was an experience he’ll never forget. These two legendary clubs are not only places to party, but also playgrounds of self-discovery where Chris could explore the boundaries of his own identity. In the following field report, Chris describes his experience.
The clash of history and freedom
The two clubs, Kit Kat and Berghain are internationally known for their open doors and eccentric events. As I set out, I was aware of the casual atmosphere that characterizes these places. Both clubs have a long history in the LGBTQ+ scene and pride themselves on welcoming people of all sexual orientations.
A typical night at Kit Kat
The night started at Kit Kat, a place famous for its diverse fetish parties. This is where extravagance meets personal freedom – visitors can live out their true identity here. I chose an unusual combination of fashion accessories to express my individual style.
The Kit Kat is not only known for long kinky nights, but also for a strict door policy. While this creates hurdles, it is in the best interest of the celebrating community. Only people who are open and represent the values of the club should party here. An important tip: it is not necessary to put on your kinky outfit right away and drive all over the city. There are facilities in the club to change and drop off your clothes. However, it is important to take a photo of your outfit beforehand so that you can show your extravagant outfit to the bouncers.
After dropping off my clothes and getting dressed up, I went exploring. Covered in shiny body oil, adorned with eye-catching accessories and carrying a bottle of Berlin Ultra Strong, I found myself in an atmosphere where prejudice had no place. Sex toys were not only used as a physical complement, but also as a topic of conversation that created connections between like-minded people.
Driven by good and loud techno beats, I explored every corner of the club. I was fascinated by the openness shown to me by other visitors. With the first step into Kit Kat, I had the feeling that I can be who I am here – completely without prejudice or wry looks. I had a very good time with many moments that I will not forget. I won’t tell you what happened that night – because that’s exactly the philosophy of the club: What happens in the Kit Kat, stays in the Kit Kat. Let’s just say this much: I was glad that I had thought of everything and had a bottle of poppers with me 🤫😈
The Liberating World of Berghain
What is typical for Berlin: Just because the sun rises doesn’t mean the night is over. With the first rays of sunshine, I made my way to Berghain, an iconic temple of electronic music. Here, too, the right outfit plays a big role and the club is known for its hard door beyond the country’s borders. I was carried away directly by the pounding beats and found myself in a fascinating world of openness, freedom, sex and kink. Berghain creates an environment where people can live at their own pace without fear of prejudice or judgment. For me, this was the place where sexual orientation didn’t matter – this was about the freedom to be yourself.
Self discovery and encounters
As I moved through the clubs, I socialized with people from different backgrounds and lifestyles. These encounters served as a mirror that helped me better understand my own thoughts and feelings. I realized that the acceptance and openness I experienced in these clubs helped me to accept and love myself.
Sex Toys and Intimate Connections
In this environment of free spirit, intimate encounters also took place, made even more exciting by the use of poppers, sex toys and accessories. I experienced moments of trying different toys with my companion to deepen our connection and reach new heights of intimacy.