Prostatamassage

Prostate massage: With the G-spot to orgasm

Have you ever wondered what the so-called G-spot is and what role it plays in a prostate massage? This point can give you a particularly intense orgasm if you stimulate it properly with a prostate massage. Want to know more about prostate massage and the G-spot? Then just read on. We’ll give you the most important information.

What is the G-spot?

Yes, this point exists not only in women, but also in men. In men, the term G-spot is used to describe the prostate. Because it is equipped with an enormous number of nerve cells, it is extremely sensitive. Its size can be compared to that of a chestnut and it weighs around 30 grams. The main task of the prostate is to enrich your ejaculate with seminal fluid during orgasm, making the sperm more mobile and protecting it from the acidic environment of the vagina.

Depending on how you or your partner handle it, it can give you intense experiences that some people call ecstasy. If you treat it incorrectly, it can also be a traumatic experience. We often hear that doctors in particular don’t seem to have a particular talent for being sensitive when examining the prostate. So always be careful, then a prostate massage can bring you to an unforgettable climax.

Here is your destination - where your G-spot is located

Are you wondering where your prostate is located? It’s not easy to find, because the position of the prostate is below your bladder and surrounds the urethra. Reaching the male G-spot alone is complicated or even impossible because it is located inside your body.

How a prostate massage works

There are two options for a prostate massage. Firstly, you can stimulate your G-spot from the outside by gently massaging your perineum (the area between your scrotum and anus). This can be very pleasant and pleasure-enhancing, especially during masturbation.

The second option is somewhat more complicated due to the position of the prostate and our limited mobility (it takes great flexibility to massage your own prostate from the inside), which is why many men use helpful and stimulating toys for prostate massages. Because in order to get to the “core of pleasure”, it is important to work your way into the “depths of lust”. To be more precise, you need to use the back door and plunge about 5 to 7 cm deep into the anus. When you feel towards the belly, you will come across a small bulge. This is your G-spot. Because you can’t simply massage it with your own finger, there are specially designed anal toys that will help you to feel it.

How to perform a prostate massage

Have you found a partner who will help you explore your G-spot in the truest sense of the word and would like to try this type of play with you? Then it’s time for the old adage that good preparation is everything.

What you can do to prepare

Above all, you should be relaxed and prepare the area of your body that will be the focus later on. This means, for example, that you should empty your bowels, which is not actually necessary. The part of the intestine that will be the focus later on is normally clean. However, because most people associate the buttocks with dirt, it is above all a sign of appreciation to ensure cleanliness there with a visit to the toilet, a small enema and the use of moist toilet paper. In this way, unpleasant surprises can be avoided completely, or at least in the vast majority of cases.

But it’s not just you who needs to do a bit of “groundwork”, your partner does too. He should cut or file his fingernails. This will prevent injuries during the prostate massage. You should also wash your hands thoroughly so that no germs get into your intestines.

Relaxation before the prostate massage

After “house cleaning”, create a relaxing and cozy atmosphere. There should be a pleasant temperature in the room, light a few candles or perhaps incense sticks. Simply organize the environment so that it feels good for you.

For a prostate massage to really be a good experience, the person being massaged needs to relax. Unfortunately, the sphincter muscle in many men is usually tense or even cramped, so that any attempt to penetrate the anus is more painful than pleasurable. For most people, the anus is a one-way street. Especially if you are a newcomer to prostate massage, you need to get over this way of thinking. It’s purely a matter of the mind. With a little practice, your anus will very quickly be “passable” in both directions. The best thing to do in this case is to use one of our many poppers.

It's all about posture - the best way to reach the G-spot

You can experiment with which position is right for you. Many men like to lie on their stomach with one leg drawn up to the side. Others prefer a sideways position, while still others lie on their back with their legs bent and raised. Just try out which position you feel most comfortable in. However, always make sure that your bottom and stomach are relaxed so that you can breathe freely and deeply without tensing your core muscles.

These aids provide more arousal during prostate massage

We have already talked about the most important toys for a prostate massage. But there are other aids that you can use. It is advisable to use water-based lubricant so that penetration into your anus is as painless as possible. Its lubricity makes everything much more pleasant. You should avoid using silicone-based lubricant if you are using a silicone toy at the same time, as the lubricant could damage the surface.

A “helper” that should not be missing during a prostate massage is a high-quality popper. If you inhale the vapors from the bottle shortly before orgasm or to relax, this will significantly intensify the feeling at climax.

The G-spot massage can be arousing for both of you

Massaging your prostate doesn’t have to be exclusively arousing for you. After all, you’re not forced to simply lie still. For example, you can satisfy your partner orally while he pleasures you. Your efforts to pleasure his penis will probably intensify as your arousal increases through his prostate massage. Your pleasure can therefore become a real win-win situation for both of you.

Conclusion: Prostate massage yes, but as a gift please

A prostate massage can be a very arousing and intense experience if you do everything right and don’t go too fast. Especially if you have no experience with this type of play, take your time when exploring your G-spot. If your partner goes too fast, slow him down and make him aware that a prostate massage is a gift, not a compulsory exercise that has to be completed quickly. As the recipient, you set the pace and intensity. If you both follow these tips, massaging your G-spot can also be a very pleasurable experience for your partner.

Reference sources:
https://www.maennergesundheit.info/maennergesundheit/potenz-und-erektion/g-punkt.html

https://www.onmeda.de/gesundheit/sexualitaet/g-punkt-mann-id202127/